It’s been a while
since I wrote a piece of my own thinking. Today I remember my fellow female
species; our mothers, aunts, sisters, girlfriends, grandmothers and friends. I’ve
come to appreciate my fellow woman, the woman who has raised me to the person I’ve
become, the women who have corrected, advised, helped, had my back and also
those who have been there for me over the years. I believe women should be
their own best friends not their own worst enemies.
We should embrace
each other, support one another, and stand up for each other, you know... GIRL
POWER. We should not prefer a male boss over female one just because there’s a
stereotype that women are jealous and insecure. In whichever position we are, if
we look after each other, love each other and uplift each other, then life
becomes much easier. Yes, a woman might be wishing the worst for you, dislike
you or even be jealous of you but so can a man. It’s not because she is a just
a woman, it’s because she has that particular personality/behavior.
Women should
complement each other.
Women should not
compare themselves with each other; we are all different.
Women shouldn’t judge
each other on their choice of dressing, unless on those extreme cases, where
you can respectfully correct or advise them.
Women should
support each other even if they don’t support their situation. Whether you don’t
like her choice of boyfriend/husband/lifestyle, be there to support her when
she needs it.
It’s time to make a change, for everyone’s sake we should be
standing together. We already have enough judgment from the male species and
enough insecurities from them. We will rise from lifting each other; we will
rise from empowering each other.
It starts with you, it starts with me.
