FROM A WOMAN TO ANOTHER

   It’s been a while since I wrote a piece of my own thinking. Today I remember my fellow female species; our mothers, aunts, sisters, girlfriends, grandmothers and friends. I’ve come to appreciate my fellow woman, the woman who has raised me to the person I’ve become, the women who have corrected, advised, helped, had my back and also those who have been there for me over the years. I believe women should be their own best friends not their own worst enemies.

   We should embrace each other, support one another, and stand up for each other, you know... GIRL POWER. We should not prefer a male boss over female one just because there’s a stereotype that women are jealous and insecure. In whichever position we are, if we look after each other, love each other and uplift each other, then life becomes much easier. Yes, a woman might be wishing the worst for you, dislike you or even be jealous of you but so can a man. It’s not because she is a just a woman, it’s because she has that particular personality/behavior.

   Women should complement each other.

   Women should not compare themselves with each other; we are all different.

   Women shouldn’t judge each other on their choice of dressing, unless on those extreme cases, where you can respectfully correct or advise them.

   Women should support each other even if they don’t support their situation. Whether you don’t like her choice of boyfriend/husband/lifestyle, be there to support her when she needs it.

It’s time to make a change, for everyone’s sake we should be standing together. We already have enough judgment from the male species and enough insecurities from them. We will rise from lifting each other; we will rise from empowering each other.

It starts with you, it starts with me.

SELF IMPROVEMENT/GOOD DEEDS

They say, “Make the most of yourself, for that is all there is of you.” I'm trying to find something to base my life upon. Every day I strive to become a better person. I’ve learnt patience, kindness, forgiveness and to appreciate life without constantly complaining about it. Looking back, I truly love the person I’ve become, the lessons I’ve learnt, the growth I’ve experienced, all thank to God. No one is perfect but we can become better people and make better decisions every day. We must carry the full weight. We must fight our way out of the depths. We must surrender to none, fight to climb, and in the journey we will find that the climb is endless.

Never stop improving. Strive for greatness. Expand your horizons. In order to achieve more success, take everything in stride. Create your legacy. Do not take anything for granted. Be an inspiration for all to see.

Self improvement is all about asking God to guide our steps and help us practice good deeds. Everybody has the chance to do good deeds; if you are driving near a school, lower down your speed. When you see the homeless, give them a pound or two. Lower the sound on the T.V If the elderly live near you. I’m not saying that you must give away your lungs or your heart but remember it’s the smallest things that play the biggest part.


Allow yourself to learn and when you do learn all you can.

Allow yourself to lend a helping hand and when you do a hand will help you.

Allow yourself to love and when you do you will find love in return.

Allow yourself to be happy and when you do you will influence others around you.

Allow yourself to be positive and when you do life will get easier.